AndThen

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AndThen has been within the Pro-Ana, recovery and ED community for around 25 years. He first found the community due to his first love dying from Anorexia. 

Some of the Shunned see themselves are more "hopeless romantics" and in reality they really are the "nice guy":

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However, the term is also often used sarcastically, particularly in the context of dating, to describe someone who believes himself to possess genuine "nice guy" characteristics, even though he actually does not, and who uses acts of friendship and basic social etiquette with the ulterior aim of progressing to a romantic or sexual relationship. This is sometimes referred to as "Nice Guy Syndrome", which is used to describe a sense of entitlement to sexual or romantic attention from women simply for being "nice", and irrational anger when that attention is not reciprocated.

- (from wiki lol)

This type will wait for years to establish a strong connection and then try to meet in-person. The intent is to often marry and trap those that they target. They can either seek to "help you" recover or worsen your disorder but dependency created by the "nice guy" is constant theme.

They are often in denial and justify their actions with their seemingly good intentions. Often these individuals fear abandonment and exert control over you to make themselves feel secure.

 

If you have been a victim of AndThen and wish to discuss options, feel free to e-mail me at [email protected]. AndThen registered using his legal name.

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MODDED AND RUN A SUPPORT GROUP FOR WOMEN WITH BPD AND EATING DISORDERS ON A CAMSITE!!!

- posts it RIGHT IN HIS BIO - No way AndThen wasn't reported before imo

 

"I know about DID" - great...

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"betrayals can put a crimp in our ability to feel trust".

"our ability to relax is in direct proportion to our ability to trust [...] life".

trust me X X

Andthen familiar with "betrayal trauma":

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Advice to a 16 year old on dressing "provocatively":

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Liking posts about sexual abuse victims liking older men:

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Andthen in the thinspo forum:

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When I met Hailey, she was convinced that AndThen was one of her roommates that testified at Ren's plea deal as he knew more information about the case than was publicly released at the time.

He discusses the BDSM parties and uses the same defence as the plea deal claiming that Hailey would openly admit to enjoying their relationship dynamic. In actuality, Hailey confided in me that she was ball-gagged at the BDSM parties and beaten harshly after if she tried to talk to anyone.

Below AndThen victim-shames, blames and propagates the lie that Hailey had access to the internet during her captivity. He also lies about how she was rescued which was being able to access an application that breaks the child-safety lock on the internet. After that Hailey was able to reach out a stranger on the internet for help.

This is what Hailey wrote me:

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Nick and Garrison both testified lies in a hearing, which means some information from the roommates was released somewhat to the public. But that person commented I think about me being at play parties, and a willing bdsm participant, and about a certain way of being rescued that the roommates believed was true. It was by a person called "andthen." with alot, alot of posts.  The way they described the case is only how someone involved with or directly one of the roommates would have and sounded nothing like the actual details. "The way i remember it, she went off with this fellow voluntarily, lived with him and some other folks, and could come and go whenever she wanted to."

At the time the media didn't even mention the roommates. Nobody would remember it like this unless involved, I interacted with very few people in that time. At dnd parties, at bdsm parties. So it was either a roommate or one of the handful of the roommates friends I met personally, all of who I was abused in front of through physical or emotional means, or even gagged or tied up. [...] None of the articles said anything like this.

 

"you have to wonder what those folks (general public) were thinking."

- the obvious! that the site is run by predators!! loll

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Who would you fuck?

He should have said: my old partner, that died from Anorexia ~25 years ago.

Another Ana friend who dies:

^note ILiveToMosh

 

Meeting up with "friends" he met of the internet:

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AndThen is Very VERY concerned about pming you...

14th

23rd

25th

 

AndThen just wants to know about the PM system not working on MPA...

AndThen IS STILL CONCERNED ABOUT PMing ALL OF YOU ON MYPROANA UNMONITORED!!

- xx - kisskiss

OMGGGGGG

THANK GOD PM IS BACK WORKING AGAIN!!

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AndThen is VERY CONCERNING THAT THEY WILL SHUT DOWN MPA!! AND JUST RIGHT AFTER THEY FIXED THE PM ISSUE

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AndThen supporting Tony the "all-female cult" leader.

Both Annea and AndThen admit they are aware of the claims of girls going missing associated with the cult.

AndThen: "I'm working MPA, Pancake, and here."

*working*

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Oh, ILiveToMosh knows you are an elder ana...

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This is AndThen giving advice on finding dead animals to our friendly Cannibal with a scat fetish(feces)! He wants to eat your scabs with shit rubbed in them... Check out the Vertical Scope thread for more on ZombieLunch:

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Being a suck for Vertical Scope: